Arriving at university or college can be daunting for everyone. For many, it may mean living away from home for the first time, which in itself can be overwhelming. You will most likely have a hundred questions and fears: What will it be like? Can I cope with the workload? Will I be able to fit in? It may help to know that everyone is feeling similar, though some may hide it better than others.
The vast majority of freshers will be pleasantly surprised. Indian universities and colleges are populated by a broad variety of people from many walks of life with diverse outlooks and opinions. Look beyond the initial confines of your college, house, or hostel; the institution will have many more people who share similar interests to yourself. Here are some tips from other students:
- Meet as Many People as Possible: Introduce yourself, smile, and be confident. Everyone is in the same boat, whether they appear to be or not.
- Be Yourself: Real friends will want to know you for who you are, warts and all.
- Keep Your Opinions About Others to Yourself: Until you know whom you can trust, be cautious about sharing your opinions.
- Manage Your Laundry: Don’t save it all up to take back home during holidays. Learn to use the college laundry facilities or nearby laundromats.
- Have a Good Time: Enjoy the freedom and make the most of your college life.
- Join Societies and Clubs: During the first-week fairs, join a few societies. If unsure, note down contact details to get more information later.
- Stay in Touch with Family: Phone home and let your family know you’re all right, even if you don’t exactly feel it. They’re probably more worried than you are.
- Handle Homesickness: Everyone feels homesick at first. Talk to new friends you trust and maybe write or call friends from home.
- Make the Most of Your Time: You’re at university for a few years; make the most of it. College life flies by, and you’ll miss the freedom and long holidays.
- Use Email to Stay Connected: Keep in touch with family and friends at home via email or messaging apps.
- Don’t Limit Yourself to One Group: Don’t hang around with just one small group. You’ll miss out on the chance of making other good friends.
- Be Careful with Your Money: Little extras can quickly drain your bank account. Keep track of your spending.
- Avoid Peer Pressure to Drink: You don’t have to drink alcohol all the time. Drinking soft drinks is easier on the pocket and healthier.
- Plan Beer Sessions Wisely: Save beer sessions for weekends when you don’t have to worry about getting up early the next day.
- Talk About Your Feelings: Don’t let everything get bottled up. Talk to somebody, whether it’s family, friends, or a student help line.
- Learn to Cook: Take-away food can drain your finances. Learn to cook basic meals. Invest in some essential spices and ingredients, and maybe chip in with housemates.
- Limit Night-Out Expenses: When going out, take only as much money as you need or want to spend. It’s easy to overspend after a few drinks.
- Choose Clubs Wisely: Almost all clubs charge a joining fee. Stick to a few clubs you know you’ll enjoy and can keep up with.
- Enjoy Your First Year: Live your first year to the fullest. You’re only a fresher once.
- Budget Wisely: With a student loan in your account, it’s tempting to spend. Don’t. Plan your budget so you don’t end up with too much debt. Work out what’s coming in and what needs to go out, then divide the remaining amount by the weeks until the next deposit. Remember to save for unexpected expenses like toiletries and photocopying.
Additional Tips for Indian Students:
- Use Digital Payments: India is rapidly moving towards a cashless economy. Use digital payment methods like UPI, Paytm, and Google Pay for convenience and safety.
- Stay Informed About College Policies: Indian colleges often have specific rules and regulations. Stay informed to avoid any issues.
- Cultural Adaptation: Indian campuses are diverse with students from various states and backgrounds. Embrace this diversity and learn about different cultures.
- Local Cuisine: Explore local food options in and around your campus. It’s often cheaper and gives you a taste of the local culture.
- Safety First: Always prioritize your safety. Avoid isolated areas at night and use trusted transportation options.
- Mental Health Resources: Many Indian universities now offer mental health resources. Don’t hesitate to use these services if you need them.
